ABOUT
JOURNAL
SKETCHBOOK
OBJECTS
PHOTOGRAPHY
FASHION
INSPIRATION
CONNECT
davidv1llar asked:
From your own words and experiences, what can you say is the difference between romancing a lady and flirting with one? Btw great blog!
To overuse food analogies….
Flirting is like an amuse-bouche, a small, bite sized appetizer offered by the chef. It literally means “mouth amuser”. Get her appetite going. Just enough for her to want more. The instant experience of flavors hitting the tastebuds. Something new. Something familiar. Something comforting. Something exciting.
Romancing is the ambiance and the service. The experience of walking into a gorgeous place, the lighting, the tables, the set up; and being treated well. A combination of elements that will make her want to stay for hours and make her want to come back in the future. This, of course, includes the food-what do you have to offer.
So if you’re trying to romance a girl you still have to flirt a bit.
But if you’re just talking about flirting with a girl so you can go home with her that night, I can describe it like the both of you getting really drunk and going to a halal cart at 3am and getting chicken over rice with extra white sauce (no pun intended). Satisfying, but certainly a health risk.
On Hard Breakups
Anonymous Asked: Hardest break up you’ve experienced?
Hands down Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams.
Yeah the first time they broke up, it was a bummer. But then here they are, snugglin’ all barefoot and feeding each other. Back together just like the movie!
Then they broke up again and the only thing that came to my head was “Are you telling me The Notebook wasn’t real!?”
But I’m not giving up.
IT STILL ISN’T OVER.
On the Evolution of Love
The lovely people behind The Man’s Guide to Love sent me an e-mail and shared with me probably my all time favorite video on their site.
Bruce is 67 and has been married for 41 years. I could type out some keypoints on what he said in his video, but it’s really better if you just watch it. So just watch the video.
P.S. Bruce is an Academy Award winning screenwriter, which he won for a little movie called Ghost.
On Sinatra on Intelligent Women
“I like intelligent women. When you go out, it shouldn’t be a staring contest.” - Frank Sinatra
